Relationship Therapy

For Singles & Couples

Welcome to my website


Tamara Vroomen relationship therapist

My specializations are attachment and connection. Problems in relationships or finding the right partner can be caused by your attachment style, which is formed in your childhood. This determines to what extent you can connect and whether you deal with this with fear or avoidance.

In my relationship therapy I have a unique style. In a personal and involved way I combine my own life experience with different ways of coaching. I use spiritual methods such as inner childwork, the law of attraction and visualisations.

 By exploring childhood experiences and the resulting attachment style, I create an awareness about healthy boundaries and needs and how to express them in a nonviolent way. My therapy is genuine, authentic and honest. I work from a heart to heart connection and I use my strong intuition. 

This approach is best reflected in my unique Whatsapp coaching. I am available 24/7 for voice and text messages. This means that you always have access to me, exactly when you need it, such as during a fight or after a date. This whatsapp coaching can be combined with individual 1-hour sessions via Zoom or in my own practice in The Hague.

What does relationship therapy look like?

What can I use relationship therapy for?

Support and advice for: 

Couples: breaking through the repetitive arguments and patterns, a more effective communication style, and a deeper degree of connection. 

Singles: attracting your ideal partner, changing blockages in your mindset, and exploring your boundaries and needs

How does the relationship therapy look like?

Whatsapp coaching: This unique form of coaching means that I am available 24/7 for voice and text messages. This means that you always have access to me, exactly when you need it, such as during an argument or after a date. At those moments I am ready for support and advice, so that we can dive deeper right away. You also get access to my 101’s in the form of videos and visualizations. This can be done for singles as well as for someone in a relationship

Sessions: This can be done online via Zoom or in my own practice. Through 1 or 1.5 hour sessions, we dig deeper into the effect of childhood trauma and attachment styles on your love life and develop skills to experience more connection. 

These 2 ways of coaching can be combined with each other in a package especially for you.

Is there a waiting list?

No, we can start right away. 

Tamara is incredibly knowledgeable, personable, wise and very funny. I attended her Tantra workshop and learnt so many practical tools to enhance my relationship with my partner. The workshop also reignited the aspect of me that loves to pleasure and to be pleasured. This was one of the best workshops I’ve ever been to, and I’ve been to a lot! I recommend her workshops to anyone looking to uplevel their relationship with self and others.


Tamara, is an amazingly powerful relationship coach, she has so much passion and so much knowledge in her field! If you’re in need of guidance in your relationship Tamara has many tricks and tools up her sleeve to be able to create “harmony” in your relationship


Thank you so much, Tamara, for offering this beautiful space at the Tantra-Lingam-How-to-Workshop. It was a lovely gathering with so much information and I really liked the way you talked about all your experiences and research and to focus at the moment. It felt safe to open up and share experiences. Thanks a lot – looking forward to practice!


Thanks a lot for a very understanding, kind and professional talk! She gives a lot of background information and knows for sure what she is doing.


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